Things not to do: superheat your coffee

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I knew very well that you have to be careful with microwaves and liquids. They can reach temperatures of over 100°C while looking perfectly harmless until you move them. I was busy and I forgot. I picked up my cup of coffee, and it exploded with amazing force all over my hand and high up the kitchen wall, where it ruined this amazingly lifelike portrait of my own dear husband. Luckily for me, it somehow went in that direction, and not all over my face!

So my right hand was completely unusable, and I spent an entire day and night sitting/lying with it in a bucket of cold water. Any time I tried to remove it, I was in agony. Fortunately, my hand was usable the next day, and is almost better now. But in the meantime, I was utterly dependent on my nearest and dearest (see very lifelike portrait above) for sustenance. He was all set to exploit this opportunity to the full and put me on a diet or something! Which I don’t even need… I wouldn’t have thought it possible that anyone would actually refuse his own wife seconds of spaghetti under such circumstances, but he did! So, all in all I consider I have had a very lucky escape. Don’t superheat your coffee, folks!

A typical nature walk – 5 February 2008

I usually only post highlights of our nature walks. Here is a typical example of the whole thing.

The orientation of the slope and the seasons

On a warm, sunny afternoon, there is still hail from last night on the ground near our house.

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Not much further on, we turn to a south-facing slope, where we find very early signs of spring. The difference between winter and spring is 100 metres – the length of our driveway as we measured it !

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Last year’s dead flower heads still dominate the landscape.

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Our neighbour is away today. Her son has been to prune the trees, another sign of spring.

Some history and social studies

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It isn’t so easy to recognise this as a rotting cart wheel, but elsewhere in the village they are used as decorations. We pass the boys’ den in a ruined barn.

Further on, we clamber down a slope to collect some litter that will return home with us to be recycled. Futher on, we decipher the signs at the entrance to the farmer’s field. We talk about why he wants us to stay near the edge, and what the electric fence is for. But is it on right now?

We pick out the trail signs for the village footrace at all the intersections. The number of kilometres left to go is also marked out, so we know it is one kilometre to favourite stream.

but our own ruin is right down by the stream where we clamber about the walls of an old mill and over the millstone.

The hazlenut tree

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The male flowers are very obvious right now, and if you shake them, their pollen flies off in great drifts. Usually, this is the wind’s job.

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The female flowers are much harder to see.

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And it’s rather unusual to find a ‘baby’ left over from last year.

The birds

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Hard to spot, but at least we recognise the alarm call of the great tit tribes who have spotted us.

Time for an experiment

There’s usually something going on during a walk: a game, a measurement, a drawing or sculpture, a construction or a sport. Today, it’s an experiment.

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Sticks float, don’t they? Except that we were surprised to discover that about half of them didn’t. You can see them lying there on the bottom of the stream.

Mosses and lichens

This is a great time of year for observing mosses and lichens.

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They lay siege to thin stalks and whole tree trunks in the same way, rising like green pyramids.

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We can tell there are many different kinds, but moss identification is tough. It may start here, with the different spore capsules.

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The lichens are also in full reproductive glory.

An exploration and mystery or two

It’s easy to move into new areas with the undergrowth gone.

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In a quiet, sunny part of the stream under a fossil-filled rock, we discovered a creature.

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And this tiny windmill? Maybe it’s a baby conifer?

The sunset

It’s a long way home, but a sunset over the whole valley is waiting for us at the end.

New directions in nature study

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A new look at Favourite Stream. About a mile further up than usual, and already much narrower.


Here’s our latest exploration of a new part of Favourite Stream, led by Antonia. Fortunately, February is one of the best times for exploring the wilderness, with hardly any prickly undergrowth under the trees.

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Antonia clambering up a small tributary stream.

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The improvised crossing

Last year, observation was the main theme of our nature study. Antonia learned to really, really notice all kinds of things around her, especially very small things. I didn’t really plan it like that, and it was really exciting for both of us to see her skill and curiosity growing. At the same time, she got comfortable being out of doors, which was certainly not the case when we began homeschooling.

Now, a change is taking place. For one thing, she has really come into her own, physically. Even other adults who know her have noticed it. She runs like the wind, climbs as if it was nothing, outgrew her beginner’s skipass in one day… And she’s become very exploration orientated on our nature walks. She wants to know what’s down all the other paths, or where you get to if you follow the stream. I think it’s partly because physically she can, and partly a change in the way she perceives the world. In fact, although we obviously have more than enough developmental stages to measure kids against, I think if we’re to have them at all, the desire to follow streams and rivers really should be one of them. Until recently, the idea simply didn’t occur to her. Along with this change, she’s started making her own maps and has become fascinated by compass directions. She’s been able to do the grade-level appropriate map-reading exercises for some time, but I think it was more a game to her, not a tool for understanding or communicating the world.

Homeschool record 18 – 24 February

Most of this week’s records got lost in a computer accident, but I think it was a quiet week on the homeschooling front, with lots of free play with friends. There was quite a bit of socialising on the adult front as well.

Lessons

  • I think we did them on one day: narration from Le Feuilleton d’Hermes, and a bit of dictation

The Unschooled Stuff

Language Arts

  • Wrote herself a to do list, probably inspired by Frog and Toad
  • She finished teaching herself the Lapin de Septembre poem

Reading

  • A lot of independent reading due to travel time in the car and some adult time.
  • We co-read Magical Animals from Usborne Young Readers

Maths/Logic

  • Got Mike to print her out a list of long numbers e.g dodecahillions or whatever they are, and discussed scientific notation with him
  • Played with the tangrams

Science/Nature Study

  • Walk of exploration along favourite stream
  • Various brainpops
  • Watched a David Attemborough on mammals
  • Informal review of continents and oceans on the globe – and how to find the shortest route across the globe using a piece of string
  • Learned and spotted the constellation Cassiopeia

Arts and Crafts

  • A fair bit of free drawing
  • Some experimental watercolour painting
  • She made a paper sculpture of a fish
  • We made modular origami houses together
  • We looked at Matisse’s paper cut-outs
  • She designed and built an indoor tunnel tent cabane

Music

  • Lots of piano playing
  • Listened to some jazz

Sports

  • Got her first beginners ski pass and outgrew it the same day. She skis as fast as the slope will let her, swerves around fearlessly, but I have no idea if she can stop.
  • Ball throwing and catching practice.
  • Went swimming

Games

  • Played a computer game on Mike’s cell phone. I don’t know why.
  • Played Poisson Rouge a little bit
  • Lego, a little bit

Out and about

  • The back end of the sleepover on one day
  • Afternoon with friends at the park and their house
  • Another whole day of play with friends who then came to dinner
  • An adult dinner party
  • Went out for lunch in a restaurant

Special mention

  • I tried to get her morally prepared for the homeschool inspection. Unfortunately, I don’t know what it’s going to be like. We discussed various behaviours that might not be ideal, mostly by modelling them, so we had a good laugh. Some of them came as a surprise to her (we don’t have to give the inspector a present!), and I just don’t think she is at a suitable social development stage to handle the kind of ‘professional’ relationship to adults that I think they are going to dump on her.

Homeschooling for adults: microscopy

Mike and I are getting to grips with our microscope before we let Antonia loose with it. She is pushing for a go, but this morning we had problems with a dodgy switch on the light. I was sad because I had managed to prepare an almost decent section of the hyacinth stem using nothing but a craft knife. This evening we got the thing working, and we’re delighted to find we can take reasonable photographs without paying a huge sum for a camera adapter.

When I compared the pictures, I discovered the tripod hardly made any difference over a handheld camera. The focusing is not totally brilliant, but it will do.

There we go… with practice, we might get some nice pictures! Now, I don’t know what that spiral structure in the picture is. I want to believe it is contamination from dust but there are lots of them all over the stem section, and none on other parts of the slide. If anyone wants to enlighten me, please leave a comment.

Into the fray!

I suppose this counts as socialisation. At any rate it’s a situation Little Miss wouldn’t have been too happy in a year ago. Fast, noisy, crowded, fairly rough and nobody she knows. But there she goes… It’s the winter holidays over here, and the playgrounds are busy.


Meanwhile, I was busy watching the local crows fishing bread out of the pond. Bread intended for the ducks of course. I knew crows were clever, but I didn’t know they did this!

Where do we do homeschooling?

Every so often the question comes up on homeschooling forums or lists: do you have a special place set aside for homeschooling? I know some people have schoolrooms but I would imagine they are a minority. I can see it working quite well with Montessori-style methods, which are actually quite popular amongst homeschoolers here in France. Strange to tell, I also know of at least two non-homeschooling families who have created schoolrooms in their homes, just for their children to do homework. Apparently, their children can only study in a school-like setting!

I have also talked with some homeschoolers who just feel more comfortable with everything in neat little compartments. They prefer to have a particular time and place in which they do their studying, and although I suppose they know that the children are still learning outside that time and place, they consider it to be outside the sphere of what they do as home educators.

We are quite the opposite, and a schoolroom would definitely be contradictory to my educational philosophy. We don’t separate life and learning and we don’t separate work and leisure in the same way as people who work or are educated away from their homes. I see organising the space at our disposal as one of the more important parts of what I do as a home educator. It needs to be rich in possibilities, as many activities as possible need to be permanently accessible, the supply of resources needs to be kept up. Over time, our use of space has become quite organised and methodical.

The time and space corner and table work space. It contains no less than 5 calendars of different types, one of them geographical, 2 timepieces and a globe + other miscellaneous conversation pieces of the day. Used for pen and paper work, some art and science projects, … oh and eating meals. These are also the bird, wild animal and cow observation windows. The bird feeders are just outside, and the wild animals tend to cross the land at this corner of the house.

The indoor floor space. Used for constructions, manipulatives, board games, dance and gymnastics practice, …

The outdoor table space. Currently in the process of being revamped for the new season. We are generally outside whenever the temperature is even remotely suitable.

The outdoor floor space. Here it is in use last summer.

The read-aloud corner, with the read-aloud books behind it. Also used for tv, video and computing.

The music corner. It used to be full of miscellaneous noise-makers, but now it’s just the piano, Suzuki book 1, the stereo cupboard and lots of CDs.

The painting corner, with all the small-scale art materials in permanent use.

The museum or cabinet of curiosities in an old typesetter’s tray. There are other display spaces scattered around for artwork and constructions. And a bunch of larger objects outside.

The dressing up stuff, pretend play stuff and independent reading books are all in the bedroom. I’ll leave you to guess why there’s no picture of Antonia’s private domain.

The kitchen: for cooking and some science experiments. It was designed by and for people who like to cook and do science on a big scale. It’s long and thin and unphotographable.

The garden. We currently have a herb garden and a flower garden which is all Antonia’s own. Oh, and a worm composter! Most of our land is semi-wild with some fruit trees.

Important outdoor spaces away from the house

The sunset spot and cabane. This is one of our astronomy spaces. The others are the upper and lower terraces, and the roof windows on all sides of the house.

Favourite stream and all the micro-ecosystems on the way down to favourite stream. And the rest of the prairies and woodlands within a 2km radius of the house.

The town centre. We do city walks the same way we (and lots of other people) do nature walks.

Full-blown regression

Antonia is neither very well nor very sick. And it’s manifested itself as full-blown regression, as follows:

  • needing to be rocked in Daddy’s arms – except he’s now forgotten the words of the rocking songs, so she had to sing them for him;
  • cuddling up to Mummy – except she now reads blog entries and my emails over my shoulder which I’m not totally comfortable with;
  • pretending she needed to learn colours, digging out her early childhood blocks and strewing them over the kitchen floor;
  • typing random letters on the computer keyboard – except that now she’s too strong and at least one of the keys went flying off;
  • having me dig the board books out of the cellar – except this time she seized them and read them to me;
  • refusing to answer people’s questions – aaaaaghh! I really don’t need to see that one sneaking back, just a couple of weeks before the homeschool inspection.

Apart from that, it’s kind of cute, and I was happy to go along with it. I even tried to find her a Teletubbies to watch, but no, those are gone right out of our lives. Here are the board books we liked when Antonia was little. Nothing very original, but all nice:

  • Moo, Baa, La, La, La by Sandra Boynton
  • Peepo and Each Peach Pear Plum by Allen and Janet Ahlberg
  • Jamberry by Bruce Degen
  • Time For Bed by Mem Fox and Jane Dyer
  • Guess How Much I Love You by Sam McBratney
  • We’re Going On A Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxbury

Home Alone

One of the little perks of having an only child is that when they go for a sleepover you get a little bit of child-free time to remember what it’s like. Mike and I did very little all afternoon, went out for dinner, and watched a movie until after midnight. I’m not sure if it was wise of me to decide to read Lord of the Rings for the umpteenth time at this point. Luckily, I had a quite a lot of time today as well: the sleepover went well, but as it turned out, they could easily have put Antonia to bed about five hours earlier than they did. When she got home today, she was stumbling around and muttering incoherent half sentences, until she finally crashed and slept for the rest of the afternoon. Naturally, she is now up and showing no signs of tiredness at 23.10. Oh well… She had a good time!

I think sleepovers are an important way for her to get the experience of being with another child 24/24, having to deal with everyone being tired, sharing attention from adults and all those other things only children don’t get to do quite as much. And of course, to learn that other families have different habits and lifestyles from ourselves, if the sleepover is at someone else’s house.